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Querent #1 Heidi
Heidi Asks,
“Will I be successful as a medium?”
Dear Heidi, For you I pulled: Death, The Star, and 3 of Cups--
Usually the death card carries difficult news, but for a Medium, it is perfect! The Star and 3 of Cups also suggests that there may be a particular niche or style that will really work for you, using a style will bring you some popularity. I would suggest that your practice begin with salon style sessions or small group session as the 3 of Cups does indicate this will be a group activity first. |
A man I was in a previous relationship has come back in my life. His career originally took him to the west coast. He worked hard to get back to the east coast. He wants me to give the relationship another try. He told me he never wants to let me go. Is this the man I can count on to be in my future?
Dear Anonymous
I drew: Ace of Swords, 9 of Pentacles, Strength-- I wonder how long you have been single? The answer here is not so much about him but rather your openness to being partnered up with someone. The reading suggests that you are self-made and have become proficient at doing things on your own. I believe his offer is sincere, but you both will need to be flexible communicative when difficulties arise (rather than shutting down.) This will take some real adjustment to think like a couple again for the both of you but there is promise here. |
Why do I find it so difficult (almost impossible) to be as organized and to manage my time as well as I should so that other areas of my life don't suffer? I know I am capable but there seems to be a blockage. Can you tell me what the blockage is, the cause and how I can remove it please?
Your cards are: 4 of Pentacles, 4 of Swords, and 6 of Swords--these cards suggest that your best thinking and creating come from white space. You need a lot of unstructured time, and when you start to feel overwhelmed with all the things you need to do you can often drop the whole tray and walk away. I think the answer is less, “How do I force myself into these organizational blocks?” and more of, “How do I make sure that unstructured time is blocked out then everything else fits around it?” I think the block is fear that if you over-structure yourself, you will lose the quintessential nature to your creativity, what would happen if white-space got the priority? |
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